Do you find it sad when wisdom
is whittled away to witticism?
You shouldn’t, though.
Sometimes a cliché is the only way
a tiny piece of truth can reach a
mass audience. Of course I’m
thinking of the car advert that
cashes in on a catch phrase: “Life’s
a journey, enjoy the ride.”
Ursula K LeGuin put it this way: “It
is good to have an end to journey
towards; but it is the journey that
matters in the end.”
I’m telling you that the journey is
all that most of us will ever know.
Few people reach their heart’s destination.
I guess you might as well
enjoy the ride.
Artist Georgia O’Keeffe came to a
similar conclusion in 1923.“I found myself saying to myself,
I can’t live where I want to . . . I
can’t go where I want to . . . I can’t
even say what I want to. I decided
I was a very stupid fool not to at
least paint as I wanted to . . . that
seemed to be the only thing I
could do that didn’t concern anybody
but myself.”
And, if you’ve ever seen Georgia’s
paintings of bare bones and
deserts, you know the rest of the
story . . . this was precisely how
she found her true north.
I’m searching for mine. Again.
Amongst the ego’s lost and found
items. You’d think that this would
be a once-off thing. That once
you’ve found something, it stays
found. Apparently not.
I once worked with someone who
understood this only too well.
When I got like this, he told me to
go home, throwing bits of
Nietzsche after me as consolation.“When we are tired, we are
attacked by ideas that we conquered
long ago,” is what
Nietzsche said.
I’m telling you that this is an understatement.
We’re attacked by
blood-thirsty monsters we’ve conquered
ages ago, delirious dragons
we’ve already slain. How is it that
they can blow their fetid breaths
down our necks again when we’re
tired?
If we are willing to delve deeper,
we may discover that there is an
underlying cause for our exhaustion,
says author Madisyn Taylor.
Whenever you are feeling run
down, take an honest look at the
way in which you’ve been feeling,
thinking and acting. You’re sure to
find a behaviour pattern, belief or
even a relationship that is out of
alignment with who you really are,
Madisyn says.
It’s all very well to read this when
you’re feeling good, but what do
you do when the mood keeps
plummeting? Business coach and
life strategist Lorraine Cohen gives
the following advice:
“Notice where your thoughts are
focused. What stories and dramas
are you creating? Are they serving
to help you feel better or worse? If
you’re unable to let dramas go immediately, exaggerate it big.
Really act it out and play with it so
that it becomes absurd. It might
even become funny!”
Once you’re out of plummeting
mode you might notice that the
reasons you feel run-down have
less to do with how much you are
doing and more to do with the fact
that you would rather be doing
something else.
If this is true for you, repeat after
me. I’m going to paraphrase something
that author Anita Pathik-Law
said. It goes like this:
Hello, monster. Thanks for travelling
with me thus far, for I have
grown immensely because of you.
Today I step into a greater truth of
who I am and why I am here.
Right here, right now, I declare my
commitment to be who I am, and
who I am is incredible. So it is.
And it is so. |